One of Those Nights

Sigh. 

Do you ever have one of those nights where you just start thinking a little bit too much? Nothing seems to fit into place and everything seems to be missing. I tend to live too much in the past when I really should just let go and move on. I always think, "What if?", instead of being content with what I have.

I just need to know.


Maybe it's because I'm still a little bit sick. Maybe it's because I have so much to do even though Spring Break has officially begun. Maybe I'm just sleep-deprived. Maybe i'm just a little bit lost.


(coat forever 21, cardigan h&m, lace shirt tj maxx, belt forever 21, jeans delia*s, moccasins minnetonka, ring forever 21)

Hopefully I'll be over this slump soon.
I promise I'll post more over Spring Break and I'll get around to catching up on all of your blogs. I'm missing you guys.

p.s. I was really happy and silly when I took these pictures (so excuse the contrast between the pictures and the post). More than half the shots ended up ridiculous so I decided to post one of the silly ones for you guys. I'm sure you can tell which one it is.

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  1. I get a bad case of the 'What If's?' all the time. So annoying, but luckily it passes. I hope things get better for you =)

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  2. :( I hope you get all your questions answered soon missy. Love the outfit, I can tell why you were so happy in the pictures.

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  3. I try to don't think "What if...", because before this I feel that I made lots of wrong choices in my life.

    Beautiful ring.

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  4. Love the lace top Jen... I hope you get the answers to your "what if's" soon. Happy weekend! Enjoy spring break! xoxo

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  5. the 3rd one is my favorite haha.

    thumbs down to boy problems. i hope things work out for the better! love is sometimes uncertain, you should go shopping first lol.

    hope you have a happy weekend anyway!

    <3,
    Tie Me a Bow


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  6. Are you talking about that handsome fella, who's also your photographer. :) I hope you get your answers soon, Jen! Enjoy your Spring Break :) Oh and I love your lace top. BIG HUGS.

    xx Love & Aloha

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  7. Ngaw love! I feel that way when I have too much time on my hands =\

    I hope you feel better soon =) And I can't wait to read more of your blog posts =D

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  8. Nice nice ring!
    The lace shirt is so lovable!!
    Hope you get well sooner than soon!
    :P Kiss from Spain!

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  9. Love your ring!!

    http://thenovembergirl.blogspot.com

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  10. Aww, Jenn :( <3! I know exactly how you feel, I dwell lots in the past, too.. I hope your thoughts will drift off somewhere else and that you will feel better soon.

    You look so cuute, I love the lace top.

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  11. it doesn´t matter.
    I love your photo´s, always.
    x

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  12. Oh Jen, can you believe you are my second friend who had a terrible night? I know hoe it feels... even when things are just going on, we keep bringing them back to the past. But don't worry, this happens to everybody, even to pretty girls like you :)

    I loved the belt with the moccasins and your lace shirt <3
    And what is that silly face? I want to see more silly pictures (including the one with smiley fingers)
    Big kisses, have a happy weekend!

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  13. Oh Jen, can you believe you are my second friend who had a terrible night? I know hoe it feels... even when things are just going on, we keep bringing them back to the past. But don't worry, this happens to everybody, even to pretty girls like you :)

    I loved the belt with the moccasins and your lace shirt <3
    And what is that silly face? I want to see more silly pictures (including the one with smiley fingers)
    Big kisses, have a happy weekend!

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  14. yeah jen, i've ever had that night, too much thinking about everything, it sucks, we just be able to bet what if what if what if..no onw know the answers.
    ur lace top is fab, i love the skinny belt too.. the colour is match with ur shoes..
    love

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  15. I hope you get past the what-ifs soon. I know sometimes you just need to dwell on things to move past them, but there's a fine line. Just don't miss out on the life that's happening around you.

    I love that lace top!

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  16. Love your pictures- you're so adorable! And you're not the only one- I'm always thinking "what if" also. You'll make it over this slump- take a day and just do you! Lounge in bed, watch movies, paint your nails, do things that you love and make you happy and you'll get over the slump.
    beijos-Tiffany-http://imashoewhore.blogspot.com

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  17. great Outfit! I hope you are doing better soon.

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  18. the lace top and the ring are lovely!!!

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  19. aww jen<3 i get those nights too...especially late at night when i can't sleep, but i think looking at the past is good sometimes because you see just how much you've grown as a person. and talking to those people just reaffirms why you left them. don't worry too much jen! i'm always an email (or even phone call, you have my number) away!

    i love that outfit! so scandalous with that lace top! hehe :)

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  20. you still look cute as always even though you're lacking sleep or watever you're dealing with :D

    have some fun in spring break ! i cant wait till mine !

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  21. everybody is entitled for a "down time" where everything seems wrong :) i've had A LOT of those days :p but your outfit certainly doesn't show that. I love the lace tank peeking from underneath the cardigan. there's a subtle sexiness to it :) and the destroyed jeans added the perfect masculine/casual vibe to the look :) hope you're enjoying the spring break!

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  22. I know those nights.. I hope you'll get over it soon!
    I really like your lace top!

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  23. i love the lace shirt, you look really cute in these pictures :)

    don't think too much - enjoy your spring break! we all have these moments when things just don't feel right. this too shall pass :)

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  24. I get a lot of those nights, horrible...I hope you feel better soon <3

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  25. i hope that thing will get better very very soon! you look lovely, by the way and i adore the laced top so much.

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  26. love the distressed jeans on you -- i'm on the hunt for a pair!

    and i think most people live too much in the past -- i definitely do! it's hard not to think about what could've been.

    -Amy :)

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  27. cute outfit, love the lace top :)

    what you wrote about living in the past - story of my life...hah

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  28. I like your ring!
    Living in the past is pretty much something natural.
    You're not the only one. ;)

    Love Malou.

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  29. I'm sorry - good luck with it! Sometimes it's best to talk it through with someone for closure.

    I love the combo of the lace top, gray cardi, and brown belt!

    clothedmuch.blogspot.com

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  30. I tend to start dwelling on the "what if's" of the "I should have's" when I get stressed. I've been doing that a lot lately when it comes to school- what if I'd taken a couple months off, I should have waited to graduate, what if I'd done something differently. the truth is I can't change anything now...but sometimes it's just a way of venting I guess.

    by the way, I LOVE that lace top. so jealous!

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  31. oh. i totally know how you feel!!! i have those what-if moments too!! :D don't stress too much on it, dear! :D

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  32. i started to buy some of those shoes a week ago cute outfit jen...

    -aww you poor thing i have those moments too dont stress yourself out tho..

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  33. Great outfit Jen. I love the lace top underneath - so adorable!

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  35. you know what? i just thought about my 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' while i was driving home today... but i immediately brushed them off... because life shouldn't be lived in regrets. *wink*

    but i know how you're feeling though..i tend to be like that sometimes..where you can't put a finger on what is specifically wrong... hang in there, it'll come to you..:D

    looking forward to your spring outfits! love how you belted the cardigan here..and that ring is sooo cute!


    vanilla ice cream ♥ 
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  36. your third pic is cute, haha your expression :D
    anyway, I had before that night and I hate thinking bout it. soo, hope u can get your ansewer soon dear (:
    nice outfit anyway, I love your lace shirt :D

    -Jane

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  37. Oh this is cute and casual! I love the lace top peeking out and the belted cardigan! Haha you're adorable! Is it weird that I overthink every single day? Especially when I'm lying in bed, that's when my mind is the clearest (yet the most "crowded" with thoughts). We all have these moments, don't worry you'll be okay! It could be a lot of things: monotony, frustration, boredom, stress...those are all factors in my case. It's almost spring break, chin up :)

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  38. My dear Jen ! Ohh I'm sorry to hear that . Well , you often think 'What if' and I often think 'Why' so they're pretty much the same . I hope everything's going to be better because you're such a sweet girl and I hate it when you're sad cause you just don't deserve it :( So cheer up dear ! Talk to you soon ! xoxoox

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  39. I definetely know what you mean. I've felt a little bit down and uninspired lately. Don't worry, everyone goes through those moments.

    I love the lace on your top, so pretty

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  40. Wow, what a cool skinny belt! I love your mixture of colors!

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  41. You can waste a lifetime wondering 'what if?' You can't go back - so just focus on 'what could be.'

    And I love, love, love the lace top ~ have a wonderful spring break!

    Chic on the Cheap

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  42. 1. i love love love your belt
    2. lovelove love the lace as well!

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  44. Chin up babe. It will all come alright in the end. Going through some boy drama myself so I understand...

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  45. Do not worry we all get know 'what if'!!!
    Everything will be how it ment to be :)

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  46. This outfit is very comfortable, but classic. I totally know what you mean about that crazy feeling. I feel like I'm in a fashion, writing, life slump right now too. But having fun is key!

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  47. Awww I'm sorry you are feeling down. I have those feelings all the time where I just can't stop thinking and turning things over in my head pointlessly. Someone needs to invent an off switch for the brain!

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  48. Hey sweets! Hope ur ok, Luv ur jeans and I saw Tiekas post on u, luved it!! xxx

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  49. loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee the moccasins!!!! and lace top!!!

    xx

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  50. Love how you paired your lace top with the whole outfit and how you made it feminine yet still casual! And those moccassins are to die for!

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  51. you're very cute! hope you get everything sorted out.

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  52. Adorable! I love how you paired the girly lace tee with the ripped jeans!

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  53. hi jen you looks cute on this top

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  54. love the shoes and the ring!!
    xoxo

    fashionicing.blogspot.com

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  55. cute photos, love the pondering one! hope you can come to my slumber party! xo, mel

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  56. Ugh, I know what you mean. One of my new years resolutions (yes I made some haha) was to stop overanalysing everything and OF COURSE I haven't been able to stop. Grumble.

    But anyway LOVE the silly photo!

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  57. Hello,
    Thanks for your post ! Ouaouh ! I'm happy to see you're interesting in my blog and my reviews !
    And I love reading your blog !

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  58. yup, i get those days, too. u're not alone, jen:) i hope u'll feel better soon. u look great in the pics above! love ur silly pics:)

    TheOwlsCloset.blogspot.com

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  59. ugh! I totally hear you on one of those nights! I hope that you are feeling better and more relaxed soon!

    I adore you lace undershirt! SO cute!

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  60. Just to let you know...I have those nights all the time. They seem to come hand in hand with nights where I'm plagued with insomnia. I find that keeping myself occupied with different things, and refusing to allow myself to become bored in any way, shape, or form keeps thoughts like those at bay.

    Love your moccasins, by the way - I'm searching for a pair myself!! :)

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  61. oh girl, i experience the same nights as well, especially when the insomnie come to strike. i really love your lace shirt! so pretty! <3

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  62. oh girl, i experience the same nights as well, especially when the insomnie come to strike. i really love your lace shirt! so pretty! <3

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